If you don't believe us, there's an easy way to tell. When we have problems answering any of the four questions, we skew reality. And skewing reality *always* causes conflict. That conflict, in turn, affects our health in an unavoidable and discernible manner. We can ignore the truth, but our happiness and independence show incontrovertible signs.
|Health Area||When it's a problem||Specific examples|
|Physical||When you are not in good shape.||
Are you overweight?
Do you exercise?
Do you regularly drink or take drugs (including prescriptions!) or smoke/vape at all?
|Relationship||When you have constant turbulence.||We should all have a partner and disagreements are natural. However, repeated issues and harsh language are just not healthy.|
|Family||When you don't get along with your family or avoid building your own.||By the time you are in your thirties, you should have children and a house or on your way to having both. I know this will upset people, but this is what the group requires.|
|Financial||When you live paycheck to paycheck or don't save for the future.||There are multiple ways to ensure financial security. Living within your means is how that starts and growing your earnings is the way it continues. You need to be able to save for a day when you may not be able to work.|
If any of the items above are an issue in your life, then an emotional deficit is at work. And if there's an emotional deficit, it starts with a problem answering one of the four core questions.